Don’t Get Attached To People

Sometimes disengaging from someone is the best way you can make a difference with them when it comes to having them be more connected to who they really are at their core so they have the opportunity to contribute their deepest gifts to the world. Don’t get attached to people. That doesn’t serve them or you. Commit to their growth. You literally can’t fail with that commitment. It’s actually impossible.

When we leave someone who is feeding off of our energy, blaming us and giving nothing in return we offer them the opportunity to find themselves and share those gifts with the world. Until then, we enable them by permitting them to use us for our energy while their real gifts remain hidden. Giving away our energy to someone who complains or criticizes us denies them the pressure required to create ‘purpose’ out of their ‘potential’. -Graham R. White

Originally published at https://ericschleien.com on April 12, 2019.