Don’t try to change others.
Seek out those whose traits you already admire.
You know that moment when you realize that it’s not your behaviors that need to change but the people who you surround yourself with who interpret those behaviors in a light that doesn’t serve you.
Surround yourself with those who will see your greatness and bring you up when your expressing the deepest parts of yourself. That’ll be the most powerful environments.
Whether it’s relationships, friendships, work, etc — you’ll almost always find those people who have a history of failing in whatever they do to not see your greatness when you’re being powerful and making stuff happen.
When you’re doing awesome things — professional victims will be the first to call you names like pushy, arrogant, or other words with the intention of bringing you down.
People who don’t love themselves, they’ll push you away when you do.
People who live their life from a place of manipulation — they don’t get authenticity.
People who are natural team players who have a history of results — it’s amazing how easy they are to work with. No lame excuses. They just get the job done.
People who have a history of healthy relationships — so seamless to just express and love without all the stupid drama and manipulation, communication is just natural and all the other “normal” things you’d expect.